Listen for something new

What you listen for when you interact with your spouse, child, coworker, boss, friend… depends on what you think about them. The conclusions and stories you have about others (and yourself) determine what you look for and listen for in your interactions with them. You will look for and listen for things that verify your [...]

Look for the BEST in yourself and others

Here’s one of the quickest and most powerful ways to dramatically improve the quality and health of any relationship:
Look for the best in yourself, others, and the relationship and share what you learn by expressing sincere appreciation.
The power of appreciation is one of the most underutilized powers in relationships. Appreciation is good for the soul [...]

Singles: Are you ready for a committed relationship?

If you’re single and seeking a life partner, I have some great news! Now you can easily assess your “relationship readiness” and find out if you are ready for a committed relationship.
My new “Relationship Readiness Assessment” is a 2-page, 14-item document covering a variety of areas that are critical for healthy relationships. Don’t just jump [...]