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As you know, there is a lot of uncertainty in the world today. And for some, this will be reason enough to batten down the hatches and hold on tight. One of the effects of fear and anxiety is that they cause us to contract and tense up, minimizing the amount of energy we have available to reach out and contribute. We lose clarity of thought. And our capacity to act can actually shrink.
The world is certainly full of challenges today. I’m sure you are feeling the effects within yourself and your relationships. But to stay primarily focused there – on all the problems – can make you feel powerless and resigned. But as a friendly reminder…
You can choose what you focus your attention and energy on.
You can choose.
What difference would it make to you and others if you were to focus your attention and energy on making a contribution today? What would be possible if you saw yourself as BEING a contribution? How would this begin to transform the relationship you have with yourself and others? Are you willing to find out?
You know, there’s a common underlying question that we find ourselves asking often: “What’s in it for me?” That’s about getting something from the moment and the people you are with. But I think there is an even more powerful question: “What’s in it for them?… now that I have shown up?” That’s about giving to the moment and the people you are with. Yes, you can be a powerful contribution through the way you relate to the people you encounter everyday… your children, spouse, co-workers, gas station attendant, stranger on the street, your boss…
How will you be a contribution today?
This is certainly not the time for us to hold back our contributions and our gifts. This is not the time to become paralyzed with fear, doubt, and uncertainty. It’s a time to step forward and share the gift that you are to others. Action that is based in serving and contributing is a great way to absorb anxiety and fear. And even more importantly, it’s a great way to liberate your gifts and infuse your life with energy and meaning. That is Relationship Fitness in action!
Live the gift that you are, and watch your relationships transform!
- Denver
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